I should have posted sooner, but if have been a bit busy. ;-). Dirk and I are sitting at our gate waiting for our flight to China! There was some drama getting our tickets because the airline miles weren't redeemable as they promised, but we were still able to put them to good use and here we are. I mean, we can't exactly back out now just because of an airline ticket, now can we?
We left our kids at home with my step-mom and they are all having a blast! I gave Daniel and Lila each a journal in which I had written them a letter each day we will be gone. They both lit up when I gave those to them and I hope that helps them to feel connected and loved. Since Nathan is much too small to read, I didn't give him one, but I spent a long time last night explaining what was happening so he wouldn't be surprised to wake up and find us gone. We planned to leave at 5 am so I knew that once I tucked them in, it would be a couple of weeks before I saw them again. I woke up a little after 4 and laid in bed wondering whether to get up or try to get a little more sleep. Not long after, Nathan got up and turned his light on. That is very unusual for him so I went to check on him and he was so sad it almost broke my heart! He seemed happy to see me and stroked my hair (one of the things he used to do as a baby!). I went and snuggled with him for quite a while and explained that we were going to leave soon but Grammy was downstairs and would play with him, etc. he seemed much more at peace and I left with him saying, "I love you, Mommy!" My heart went from broken to melted!
While we were driving, Grammy texted me and said that when Nathan got up, he went into our room and asked where Mommy and Daddy were. She told him that we were going on an airplane to China and he asked her, "to get baby sister?" And she said yes. He then had a huge grin and jumped up and down clapping. The other 2 have been great too, she said. Such a blessing!! I just hope they can keep this excitement and bravery up for a while. It will be a long wait!
We will get to Guangzhou on Sunday night at 9:20 (Chinese time) and we will meet Mei-Lin on Monday. Not much time to get over jet lag so I am hoping we can manage to stay awake and be tired enough to sleep through the night "tonight". I have been feeling like I am getting sick for a couple of days now so hopefully that clears up as well. I think it's some kind of allergies that I never used to have. At least that's my guess. It's just a ton of sinus drainage giving me a raw, sore throat and not much else. Maybe China won't have whatever it is that is cause of this nonsense.... Hopefully! ;-)
I will try to update as I can.
Journey of the Heart
A tale of the long-awaited adoption journey of one expat family
Saturday, March 15, 2014
Monday, February 24, 2014
TA!
I received a call from our agency that we now have our Travel Approval and our visa appointment at the US Embassy (the appointment determines when we travel). We will leave on March 14th and I will come back on the 27th. Dirk can come home as early as the 21st. We're skipping the tours in Beijing to keep costs down, but I would love to do those again some day. I'm super excited!!! In just under 3 weeks, we will be meeting our new daughter!! Since we already have our visas, all we need to do is book our flights and pack! And our bonus miles have already been applied to Dirk's united account, so he gets to fly for free! (Now we just have to hope he can get the time off work since it comes at a bad time for him)
Saturday, February 22, 2014
Happy Birthday, LuZao!
Today (well, yesterday in China but I haven't had a chance to post until now) is LuZao's 6th birthday! Even though we didn't bring her home, I will always remember her birthday. I hope she got to celebrate in some small way! We may go out for Chinese in honor of her birthday, but I'm not sure yet. (We just had to buy a new washing machine out of the blue so the budget isn't looking too happy)
In terms of our progress, I have communicated with our agency but they didn't bring up the Article 5, so I assume that means it was picked up on the 13th as planned. (No news is good news, right?) We're sitting just over a week out so we could receive our TA (Travel Approval) any day, but it's likely to be another week or 2. There was a bit of a backlog with the Chinese New Year and ours is at the tail end of that so I imagine it will be a little on the long end. I am so ready to travel! I'm not ready to see our bank account empty, but we knew about that part going into this. ;-)
Thursday, February 13, 2014
Article 5 Ready for Pick-up
I got an email from the embassy in Guangzhou this morning that our Article 5 was ready for pick-up. I haven't heard from our agency about whether it has actually been picked up, but considering it's just after midnight in China, I'm not holding my breath. Perhaps they just haven't emailed me yet, but since they know how eager I am to know these things, I am guessing it hasn't been picked up yet. There's no reason that it shouldn't be picked up tomorrow though. At this point, what's 1 more day? The thing I'm most eager about is getting our TA and hearing when we will be travelling. My step-mother is going to come and watch the kids for us while we're in China. They are SO excited!! But, we're starting too get a little too close for comfort to a couple of major conflicts for her so I'm getting nervous about managing those. I'm trying not to panic yet, but it's getting tough.
Monday, February 10, 2014
Small Delay
Our Article 5 will be ready for pick-up on Thursday, the 13th. That was quite a delay due to the Chinese New Year!! What is supposed to be 2 weeks took nearly 4! I guess that's good for us though because a little more waiting just gives us more of a chance to redeem the free tickets that we have earned on our new credit card. I just have to trust God's timing. I really didn't see this delay coming, so I have to believe there's a reason.
Lila has been asking daily (often more than once per day!) when we get to go to China to get her little sister. It's been tough not having answers, but that's just how it is. I know better than to tell them anything until we have actual travel dates. They've had too many rugs pulled out from under them as it is. I am also anxious to start scheduling her doctor appointments so we can try to restore as much of her vision as possible, but I need to know that she will actually be here before I can do that. Soon enough.
Lila has been asking daily (often more than once per day!) when we get to go to China to get her little sister. It's been tough not having answers, but that's just how it is. I know better than to tell them anything until we have actual travel dates. They've had too many rugs pulled out from under them as it is. I am also anxious to start scheduling her doctor appointments so we can try to restore as much of her vision as possible, but I need to know that she will actually be here before I can do that. Soon enough.
Friday, January 31, 2014
Happy Chinese New Year!
China is now entering the year of the horse. Since horses are better than snakes, I'm going to take it as a good sign. ;-) We will celebrate tonight by eating Chinese food complete with as many noodles as we can get our hands on. (The kids LOVE noodles!) I don't know if we are going to decorate or make paper lanterns again. The kids enjoyed that when we did it last year, but it wasn't quite as exciting for them as I thought it might have been. We will watch the New Year's episode of NiHao Kai-Lan though! :-)
Our Article 5 didn't get picked up yesterday. No real surprise there. When they say 2 weeks, they mean to the day. Hopefully it will be ready when they open back up on Wednesday. I really don't think it will make much difference though. Either way the Central Authority in Beijing is closed until the 10th, so they wouldn't have gotten it until then anyways. The silver lining there is that we signed up for a new credit card that will give us a ton of free airline miles so we can get a free plane ticket, but it takes 6-8 weeks for the miles to be applied. Well, we didn't really sign up in time so this deal is cutting it a little close for comfort. The extra 10 days for the Chinese new year help buy us a little time in earning that free ticket. It's still going to be really close if we manage to earn the miles in time, but at least we have a chance. (Unfortunately we can only use the miles for Dirk, otherwise the miles would give us access to a great family vacation or something equally beneficial)
We have nearly decided on a name. It's down to 2 names right now that are both really similar. I go back and forth with which one I like better, but it's Dirk's decision so I'm trying to be patient. We don't actually have to have it picked out until we have our visa appointment from what I understand so that helps. Last time we had to have a passport application filled out and notarized before we ever left Germany so we don't have that pressure on us this time. I will still wait until we bring her home to announce her name just in case it does change again once we meet her. :-)
Our Article 5 didn't get picked up yesterday. No real surprise there. When they say 2 weeks, they mean to the day. Hopefully it will be ready when they open back up on Wednesday. I really don't think it will make much difference though. Either way the Central Authority in Beijing is closed until the 10th, so they wouldn't have gotten it until then anyways. The silver lining there is that we signed up for a new credit card that will give us a ton of free airline miles so we can get a free plane ticket, but it takes 6-8 weeks for the miles to be applied. Well, we didn't really sign up in time so this deal is cutting it a little close for comfort. The extra 10 days for the Chinese new year help buy us a little time in earning that free ticket. It's still going to be really close if we manage to earn the miles in time, but at least we have a chance. (Unfortunately we can only use the miles for Dirk, otherwise the miles would give us access to a great family vacation or something equally beneficial)
We have nearly decided on a name. It's down to 2 names right now that are both really similar. I go back and forth with which one I like better, but it's Dirk's decision so I'm trying to be patient. We don't actually have to have it picked out until we have our visa appointment from what I understand so that helps. Last time we had to have a passport application filled out and notarized before we ever left Germany so we don't have that pressure on us this time. I will still wait until we bring her home to announce her name just in case it does change again once we meet her. :-)
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
Visas
I just received our passports back with our new visas in place! This is the part where it feels a little more real. Sort of like feeling the baby kick when you're pregnant. You've talked about what's coming and you've prepared as much as you can, but it's a little closer to home when you have these visas in hand. Our next step is to buy plane tickets! Yikes!!! (I almost put "last step", but who am I kidding. Getting to China is really only part of the process. There's tons of in-country stuff and then more reports, visits, etc. once we're home. Does it ever really end?)
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